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Old 06-14-2025, 06:33 PM   #1
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Let's say that 3 years into a marriage you discover that your spouse has nearly $100k in credit card debt that s/he never told you about. Upon confronting your spouse about why that information was not disclosed, s/he replies that if you were interested in those kinds of details before marriage you were not serious about getting married in the first place and that marriage is a package deal.

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Old 06-14-2025, 06:37 PM   #2
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She’s crazy, that dude should be finding a divorce lawyer.
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Old 06-14-2025, 06:44 PM   #3
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Try to get back some of the stuff she bought with the card for the other guy.
Maybe you can still return it.
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Old 06-14-2025, 07:11 PM   #4
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Let's say that 3 years into a marriage you discover that your spouse has nearly $100k in credit card debt that s/he never told you about. Upon confronting your spouse about why that information was not disclosed, s/he replies that if you were interested in those kinds of details before marriage you were not serious about getting married in the first place and that marriage is a package deal.

Do you agree or disagree with the indebted spouse's take on the situation?
How do you not go over each other’s finances before you get married?
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Old 06-14-2025, 07:21 PM   #5
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How do you not go over each other’s finances before you get married?
She probably kept it from him. It’s not like you get a credit check done.
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Old 06-14-2025, 07:26 PM   #6
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I think the spouse who discovered this 3 years into the marriage is a moron
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I have no idea how much my wife makes until tax season rolls around and we go over income. I did know before marriage she was not in debt, which is a pre-requisite before marrying.

I take care of my money and I expect my wife to do the same.
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I don't trust someone that has over 5k in CC debt. Over 100k? That is someone who always has to buy something constantly and needs the "new thing" right now, then doesn't even appreciate it once the purchase is made. Pure impulse buyer. Hard pass for me.

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It depends.

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She probably kept it from him. It’s not like you get a credit check done.
You should.
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I think the spouse who discovered this 3 years into the marriage is a moron
Bingo. You’re about to get married and you don’t know your SO finances?
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Old 06-14-2025, 11:41 PM   #13
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I don't trust someone that has over 5k in CC debt. Over 100k? That is someone who always has to buy something constantly and needs the "new thing" right now, then doesn't even appreciate it once the purchase is made. Pure impulse buyer. Hard pass for me.

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it’s partially that, and partially predatory credit offers/increases.
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This is funny.
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Depends, is he hung? And does he know how to use it? This is the equivalent of the is she hot debate.
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You forgot to add, Is the spouse paying it off themselves? If yes, no big deal.
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This is correct
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hairy is a tad slow....but not a moron

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I don't trust someone that has over 5k in CC debt. Over 100k? That is someone who always has to buy something constantly and needs the "new thing" right now, then doesn't even appreciate it once the purchase is made. Pure impulse buyer. Hard pass for me.

not necessarily, what if the debt is student loan debt? or medical bills? That is way more likely than an impulse buyer into the 10's of thousands owed
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not necessarily, what if the debt is student loan debt? or medical bills? That is way more likely than an impulse buyer into the 10's of thousands owed
What moron would pay their student loan with a CC?
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not necessarily, what if the debt is student loan debt? or medical bills? That is way more likely than an impulse buyer into the 10's of thousands owed
So he paid his debt on like 75 credit cards? That’s a choice I suppose
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