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Originally Posted by ksemmel
You guys both kind of said the same thing here so answering both. Admittingly, I paid a lot more attention to the viewpoints of the opposing side as that is mainly who I was in conversation with. But like more online things, I do think the presentation of a lot of posts across the board may not have been presented correctly. I think a lot of posts came off as attacking rather than discussing, and that is what I am trying to say now.
All good though, no hard feelings on my end.
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Well when you're called a psychopath (not by you), it's a little hard to be
calm.
Really how I view this argument at its face is this.
One side feels both partners have enough trust in each other to have friends of the opposite gender while still being loyal.
The other side feels no matter how hard you try to be loyal, biologically our brain thinks in sometimes bad ways and its best not to have friends of the opposite gender. Especially since they probably don't enhance your life any more than what you already have.
Then basically one side says the other side is psychopath sexual demons while the other side says they are being unfaithful partners.
Neither were unnecessary. Both were said.
No hard feelings towards you as well. I appreciate the dialogue. But Post #59 is not a fair representation of this thread.